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  • How to Start A Cult

    How to Start A Cult

    Jacques de Villiers – writing quest: Article 49/365

    Millions of people believe that Charles Darwin coined the phrase, “survival of the fittest.” It was actually philosopher Herbet Spencer who coined it five years after reading Darwin’s Origin of Species.

    What Darwin actually said was, “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is most adaptable to change.”

    So here we have two versions of the same concept, one based on truth and the other based on a falsehood.

    Stephen Covey said, “If the ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step we take just gets us to the wrong place faster.”

    Here’s the thing: many, if not all of us, base our entire value system on a false premise and spend our lives defending it.

    If you agree with ‘survival of the fittest’, you’ll see life as a competition and try to keep as many resources for yourself as possible.

    Someone like me might come along and take the ‘adaptable to change’ philosophy and add my own spin to it. Let’s say, “Those that are most adaptable to change and co-operate with one another survive.”

    That’s not what Darwin said. But that’s my spin: co-operation. I go out and sell that, and if enough people buy into it, I’ve started a movement. Let’s call it the Co-operation Cult. But, it’s based on a false premise.

    Look at the world today, it’s full of war (we are right). Every act of violence is based on the false premise that it is justifiable to take a life, making murderers of all who buy into that world-view. It looks like Herbert Spencer has won the day with his ‘survival of the fittest’ statement.

    The trick is not to take a sentence in isolation and turn that into one’s world-view. In a sound bite world, it’s easy to do that, isn’t it, and swear it’s gospel?

    Talking about gospel. Here are two contradictory versions from the same author.

    Matthew 19:24: “I’ll say it again-it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!”

    Matthew 25:29: “For to everyone who has, more will be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who does not have, even what he has will be taken away.”

    This has split the Christian movement into two distinct camps. One that believes that poverty, suffering and charity are the way to redemption.

    And, the other (charismatic movement) preaches prosperity theology where financial blessings are always the will of God.

    Who’s right? Confusing, isn’t it?

    If I were mischievous, I’d say that all religions belong to the Cult of Confusion. They’re there to keep us on the back foot, playing on our shame, apathy, guilt, grief, pride and then throwing in a sprinkle of hope to keep us going just a little longer (and, to stop us from killing ourselves out of hopelessness). Someone has to keep the church, synagogue and mosque lights on, after all.

    Good grief, I’m cynical this morning.

    What’s the trick? Don’t take anything in isolation (a sentence) and turn it into an unwavering belief. Look at the whole picture. Use your intellect and become more discerning about what you believe. Be courageous and interrogate your beliefs (stories that have been told to you by people that are more confused than you). And, if they no longer serve you, drop them.

    As always, I go to my man-crush, Carlos Castaneda: “Anything is one of a million paths. Therefore, you must always keep in mind that a path is only a path; if you feel you should not follow it, you must not stay with it under any conditions. Only then will you know that any path is only a path and there is no affront, to oneself or to others, in dropping it if that is what your heart tells you to do.” 

    I belong to the Cult of Castaneda. And, for as long as I can remember, I believed that he really did spend time with a Yaqui shaman called Don Juan. By all accounts, this is a falsehood, and he used the character of Don Juan to spread his philosophy. 

    There’s a piece of me that believes that he did actually spend time in Sonora, Mexico with the shaman. 

    Like there’s a piece of me that believes in Ayn Rand’s objectivism philosophy where man is a heroic being, with his own happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute. 

    Like there’s a piece of me that believes that there’s an unfathomable consciousness that allows you and me to play here for a brief time.

    Like there’s a piece of me that believes that the Annunaki are real and that the Pleides (الثريا) are the star seed beings watching over us.

    I clearly belong to the Cult of Confusion. All I know is that reality is not what it seems and that we can’t deal in absolutes, because there are none. If anything, at least I could probably hold an interesting conversation.

    But one thing I’ll go to the grave believing is that gratitude and love are all we need. Now that’s a cult I can get behind.

    Oh, and be circumspect of everything I have said in this text. I am, after all, the product of millions of falsehoods that I’ve chosen to believe. Just believe yourself. Your heart will tell you what’s right.

  • How do you know when you’re in a cult?

    How do you know when you’re in a cult?

    A friend and I were talking last night about how really whip-smart people can get into cultish behaviour and start sipping the Kool-Aid (a reference to the Jonestown mass suicide where 918 people died).

    I’m sure I don’t have to explain a cult to you, you’re whip-smart.

    How do we know when we’re in a cult?

    If we’re alive, we’re in a cult (ture). We all pin our flag to something, be it a religion, a system, a company, a political party, a personality, idea, ideal or a movement.

    A nation of sheep begets a government of wolves.

    Edward R. Murrow

    The trick, of course is not to get so caught up in the thing that we lose all our rational thought. If we find ourselves agreeing with everything in our cult, we are close to sipping the Kool-Aid and losing ourselves totally.

    One of the challenges is that whip-smart people can rationalise whatever it is to suit them. Intellectually we can argue for or against something with 100% conviction and defend our narrow view of the world. As a consequence we can get up to the most unbelievable mischief.

    When we follow blindly, we can run into deep shit.

    Make yourself sheep and the wolves will eat you.

    Benjamin Franklin

    I don’t have the answer to stop us from drinking the Kool-Aid, only some thoughts that have occurred to me and may be helpful to you.

    • I need to be less in my head and more in my heart. When I feel things, that’s when I’m truly connected. Every time my heart/intuition has picked up a red flag and my head overrode it, it’s gone badly for me. I’ve learned to listen to my heart a lot more, and things flow beautifully as a consequence.
    • I need to choose inclusion over isolation. If I only get one view of the world, it is absolutely limiting, and dangerous.
    • Know that every cult (ture) has a shadow side. Let your heart guide you to what is right for your highest good and that of your fellow travellers on this rock.
    • Blindly following someone and subordinating your free will to them is not an answer to your problems. It could very well be the start of your problems … leading to you losing yourself, your heart, your soul and your life. And, of course, destroying others in the process too. I wrote a small piece about this here.
    • Know when to leave. If an acorn falls too close to the tree it will rot. The only way for us to grow is to get out of the shade of the guru tree and find our own path.
    • Take the best of everything you’ve learned in your cult (ture). If you don’t know what that is, here’s a clue: it is benevolent to your higher good and that of humanity. Add to the best and make it better and become a beacon of light and hope.

    The most important lesson I’ve learned, however, is that we actually don’t need to get answers from our cult (ture). We don’t need to learn anything new when it comes to our soul journey. We already know everything, we just need to open our heart so that we can remember. We already have the illumination we are seeking within us.

    That takes a lot of inner work, meditation and self-reflection. If we get that right, we’ll find the illumination within us and we don’t have to rely on our cult (ture) to lead us. When we’re in our head we get led, when we’re in our heart we get fed (with exactly the right answer for our situation).

    You have everything needed for the extravagant journey that is your life.

    Carlos Castaneda

    I love you, Jacques.

  • Beware Of Drinking The Guru’s Kool-Aid

    Beware Of Drinking The Guru’s Kool-Aid

    I’ve been known to hero-worship someone from time-to-time.

    I’ve even anointed people with guru status.

    And, I’ve believed everything that guru has said and taken it as gospel and blindly followed him.

    As I’ve gotten older and not necessarily wiser, I’ve realised that it’s a dangerous game to put your destiny in one person’s hands.

    The challenge is that most gurus, be they of the religious, political, spiritual, business or self-help persuasion, teach one ‘what to think’ and not ‘how to think’.

    I really have no problem if you’re following someone who you believe can help you become a human being that is self-sustaining and benevolent.

    Danger lurks when you lose your ability to have independent thought.

    There are numerous stories of things going horribly wrong when one subordinates one’s thoughts to the guru.

    Probably the most infamous case of this is the Jonestown massacre. ‘Guru’, Jim Jones managed to get 912 (276 children) to commit suicide by getting them to drink Kool-Aid and Flavor-Aid laced with cyanide and Valium on November 18, 1978.

    More

    • Hitler
    • Stalin
    • Women burned at the stake for witchcraft (sometimes just for owning a pet)
    • Gays persecuted
    • David Koresh
    • Race persecution
    • Charles Manson
    • Religious persecution
    • Stewart Traill
    • Incas (one of the most advanced (workable) government system ever) wiped out by the Spanish for God (actually wiped out for the gold)
    • Aum Shinrikyo
    • The earth is the centre of the universe
    • Claude Vorilhon
    • The earth is flat
    • Joseph Di Mambro
    • Every president of a country that has led us down a destructive path

    This is just a fraction of what is out there. I’m sure you can come up with your own list at a drop of a hat.

    “A nation of sheep begets a government of wolves” – Edward R. Murrow

    I suppose we all want to believe in something. But, with roughly 4200 religions and belief systems and just under 5000 gods to choose from (all professing to be right), finding a path is quite daunting. And, add all the self-professed gurus, claiming that only through them will you find true happiness … then it becomes downright confusing.

    I think picking a lane is a good thing because it can help us make sense of the chaotic world we live in. Picking a belief that has at its core benevolence to one’s fellow human is probably a good call. However, almost every belief system I know of professes to be for the benefit of others. Patently, this is not so and that leaves us back to square one.

    Who and what to choose?

    “Make yourself sheep and the wolves will eat you” – Benjamin Franklin

    • Remember. Most ‘gurus’ are just as stuffed up as you and me. They’re also fumbling around trying to make sense of this human endeavour. You know what they know. You just need to remember what you know, that’s all. You are your own guru.
    • Real gurus know that when they’re the smartest person in the room it is time to find another room. They don’t believe their own PR, are humble and know that they are only a fraction of the way to real understanding.
    • My take is to choose a belief system and someone that teaches you ‘how to think’ and ‘not what to think’.
    • Don’t allow others to think for you. Apply your mind and question everything.
    • Remember, that the person you choose to take instruction from is human and fallible, just like the rest of us. This person could be on the wrong path and leading you along it too.
    • Be wary of gurus that are self-promoting.
    • The same goes for gurus that say that their way is the only way.

    Blindly following someone and subordinating your free will to them is not an answer to your problems. It could very well be the start of your problems … leading to you losing yourself, your heart, your soul and your life. And, of course, destroying others in the process too.

    Read this article, How Do You Know You’re In a Cult?

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