Are You Really ‘tired’, Or Just Uninspired

Are You Really ‘tired’, Or Just Uninspired

Since November, I’ve been hearing the same refrain whispered like a tired prayer: “I’m exhausted.” “I can’t wait for December so I can disappear.” “It’s been a hard year.” Some people have already shut down. The doors are closed. The lights are dimmed. They will...
The Ghost Who Learned To See

The Ghost Who Learned To See

Just this Saturday evening, at a friend’s dinner party, it happened again.I turned into a ghost. I was mid-sentence — telling someone something mildly interesting — when a woman slipped into the space between us and began a fresh conversation with him. No apology. No...
Bosses Gone Bad

Bosses Gone Bad

Jacques de Villiers – writing quest: Article 52/365 There’s been a narrative going around for as long as I can remember that employees leave bosses not companies.  The blame is placed squarely on the leaders’ shoulders. A 2019 DDI study...
Constraint is the ultimate freedom

Constraint is the ultimate freedom

Jacques de Villiers – writing quest: Article 51/365You’ve probably heard the expression, ‘think outside the box’. That’s a bit of a stretch for most of us because we can’t even think inside the box, and when there’s no...
Find Something To Fail At

Find Something To Fail At

Jacques de Villiers – writing quest: Article 50/365 Imagine that you’re a contender in a game called life and that the world is your gymnasium. We’ve been taught that our job is to play the game to win. I don’t know about you, but I haven’t...