Benevolence is about a whole lot more than just being nice. People can only be dismissive of being here to give if they do not understand the complex nexus of character traits and feelings associated with it.
At the heart of transactional correctness is personal humility. We are able to put aside our own agenda and see things as they are.
When you put attention to what you should be giving, you become strong and balanced, you cannot be manipulated and easily swayed from what you have decided to do…
In fact, when considering the issue of economy, I have found it useful to reduce the magnitude of the basic constituent unit of the economy even further than individual people to the individual transaction.
Balance requires maturity which requires a transition from a selfish worldview to a serving worldview.